The Secret to transforming my life: Choice, Chance and Change
- Learn to exercise choice.
Everything in our life is a reflection of a choice you have made. If You want a different result, make sure that you’re making a different choice. Your choices make you who you are. Between stimulus and response, only humans have the unique ability to choose what to do. We exist in a field of infinite possibilities Our life is surrounded by a lot of choices that we take without realizing that we are choosing to make it. Every single person we talk to, every thing we read, every thing we watch, everything we say and how we choose to say it makes us who we are. Our lives become defined by every choice we take. We can either make ourselves miserable or we can make ourselves strong. The amount of work is exactly the same irrespective of the choice we make. You have a choice each and every single day.
- You can choose to make the choice to be happy and feel blessed.
- You can choose to be grateful for what you have
- You can choose to see a particular situation differently.
At any point we can change the direction of our lives by a simple choice. It’s all in our hands, our hearts, and our minds. So Choose better.
2. Learn to recognize opportunities
Every choice we make shuts an infinite number of doors and opens an infinite number of doors. It is crucial to make the right choice to utilize the chance that has been given to us. In the end, we only regret losing the chance we didn’t take and the decisions we waited too long to make. If you never take the chance, you’ll never know what could have been. Every day is a second chance to do things differently. So if there is even the slightest chance at getting something that will make you happy , risk it. Life is extremely short and happiness is too rare.
So, take the risk or lose the chance.
3. Learn to accept change.
Life is all about change. Yes, Sometimes it’s painful. Sometimes, it’s beautiful. But most of the time, it’s both. We cannot become what we want by remaining where we are. One of the biggest reasons for people to resist changes is that they focus on what they have to give up rather than what they can gain from the change. If you want to fly, you need to give up on everything that is weighing you down. If you choose to remain unchanged, you will be presented with the same challenges, the same routine, the same situations until you learn from them and choose to accept a change.
Remember, you are one decision away from a totally different life. So take the choice to take the chance to change your life.
